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*Have you ever thought that someone would treat you well only to discover that they treat your poorly?
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*How do you respond when someone treats you poorly?
 
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*Have you ever been so angry with someone that you did or said something you regretted later?
 
*Have you ever been so angry with someone that you did or said something you regretted later?
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*Why is it important that we slow down and think about things when we are angry?
 
*Why is it important that we slow down and think about things when we are angry?
 
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*How do you think David would have felt later had he killed Nabal?
 
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*What might have happened had David killed Nabal and his household?
 
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*Should you hope that God brings judgement on your enemies?
 
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**Note Luke 9:51-56, Jesus rebukes his disciples for wanting to bring down the wrath of God.  There are times in which we may get angry but that does not mean we should be hateful or vengeful.
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*What are ways in which you can relate to David's feelings of anger over the situation with Nabal?
 
*What are ways in which you can relate to David's feelings of anger over the situation with Nabal?
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*When have you incorrectly responded to feelings of anger? How did that make you feel?
 
*When have you incorrectly responded to feelings of anger? How did that make you feel?
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*How should a Christian deal with anger?
 
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Latest revision as of 14:57, 30 November 2019


Introduction

  • What examples can you think of where a character from the Bible became angry or needed to deal with anger?

Main Body (1st Samuel 25)

Introducing Nabal

The Man (v. 2-3)

The Situation (v.4-9)

The Offense (v.10-12)

Questions to Ponder

  • Have you ever thought that someone would treat you well only to discover that they treat your poorly?



  • How do you respond when someone treats you poorly?



Offended

The Initial Reaction (v. 13-17)

The Plan (v. 18-22)

Questions to Ponder

  • Have you ever been so angry with someone that you did or said something you regretted later?



  • Why is it important that we slow down and think about things when we are angry?



Diffusion

The Humble Response (v.23-27)

The Hope of Promise (v.28-29)

The Importance of Innocence (v.30-31)

Questions to Ponder

  • How do you think David would have felt later had he killed Nabal?



  • What might have happened had David killed Nabal and his household?



Judgement

The Judge (v.38-39)

The Blessing (v.42)

Questions to Ponder

  • Should you hope that God brings judgement on your enemies?



Conclusion

  • What are ways in which you can relate to David's feelings of anger over the situation with Nabal?



  • When have you incorrectly responded to feelings of anger? How did that make you feel?



  • How should a Christian deal with anger?